Finally something that is just for the Men!
Yes, you will often find me writing for the ladies, because I am, in fact, a lady 😉 and I get what it is like for them. But I love men! I love working with men who are dating, have questions and are looking for strategies that work.
I was recently featured among 60 love, dating & relationship experts for Elite Man Magazine, talking The Best Advice For Men. Such a thrill & an honour!
So much gold in this article I wanted to highlight some of my fav themes so you can check them out and read more if interested. All fall under what I would call “Things Every Man Should Know”, plus I’d love to hear from you which tips rocked your dating world.
Must Read Teasers:
1) Up your confidence approaching women and reduce anxiety or rejection with these tips. Dr Rhodes has the perfect thing to say to a women that isn’t so warm or kind in response to your approach, so that you can turn the tables, stay classy and walk away with even more confidence! In addition I’ll throw in the 3 second rule from Tim Ferriss. Once you see an attractive girl you’d like to approach, you must take action within 3 seconds. If you wait longer, you not only risk starring creepily for the whole night, but more importantly you psych yourself out & risk talking yourself out of it. You are ready! (Tip #3 by Dr. Jennifer Rhodes)
2) How to keep the spark alive in relationships 3 simple strategies. Emily shows you how women know you care (which is the key to our hearts by the way), as well as how to decrease her insecurities and have more sex & intimacy with you. I always say Never Stop Dating, its where all the fun & passion lives. (Tip #13 by Emily Hellman) The feminine loves & thrives from praise & reassurance! All. The. Time. It is never too much. From a mans perspective I like it even better Sebastian Harris (Tip #18) says “seduction never ends”. The 9 second kiss! Need I say more? Clinical Sexologist Uta Demontis gives you all the goods in Tip #56.
3) Donald Trump, love or hate him, his business success tips actually map perfectly onto dating for men! The art of sealing the deal here is finding & keeping your ideal girl. I especially love Thinking Big, Maximizing Your Options and Know Your Market. For Cost Containment I’ll add in my own first date guideline: keep it to max. one hour (coffee, tea, ice cream) so you can get to know if you want to spend more time and know them better. This way you leave them wanting more. Nothing worse than a date that goes on for too long. (Tip #16 by Kristina Lynn)
4) Check out the play-by-play for how something small can produce massive results for increasing her desire for you from the awesome Kevin Alexander from Nice Guy Dating (Tip #24). For more with Kevin & I, check out the podcast where he interviews me on Harnessing Your True Masculine Power Through Love.
What is my advice you ask?
Forget playing it cool! Take a risk and show your interest. It is the key to triggering her interest in you. Often we don’t even consider dating men until we know they are interested in us. Doesn’t mean they aren’t attractive, or great catches, often they are!! But we feminine gals love being desired and pursued, and because of this, when we find out you are interested in us or think we are attractive, you instantly become a possible love interest for us! You instantly become more attractive, desirable & interesting, because you are interested in us. Plus, there is nothing sexier to us than a man willing to take a risk to win us over! Check out the article under Tip #10 for my specifics on what to say to communicate you are interested romantically, instead of falling into the ambiguous & dreaded “Friend Zone”.